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Adventurers Assemble: Navigating the Quest for the Perfect RPG Group

Finding the right group for an RPG can be a quest in its own right. Whether it’s for a casual game night or an Actual Play show, assembling and maintaining a group poses unique challenges, from aligning schedules to ensuring everyone is on the same page about the game’s style and rules.

When my friends and I decided to start an Actual Play show, I knew it wouldn’t be easy, but the challenge was tougher than I expected. Finding players who were comfortable in front of a camera and able to consistently show up, but also available at the time the rest of us were was no small feat. The initial excitement of launching the show was quickly tempered by the reality of coordinating schedules and finding players who clicked both with each other and the potential audience.

Vader Down by Jonathan Lau
Vader Down by Jonathan Lau

My struggles didn’t end with the AP. I also run a regular Star Wars RPG campaign that faced its own hurdles, primarily around scheduling. As our lives got busier, it became increasingly difficult to ensure everyone could meet on Thursdays. Eventually, the scheduling conflicts grew so persistent that we had to make a tough call—we ended up wrapping up the ongoing campaign prematurely and started a new one with a different group structure that better suited our erratic availability.

This switch was bittersweet; while it was sad to see one story end, the new campaign offered fresh starts and renewed enthusiasm.

Even sadder, this last week, I’ve had to put the campaign on hold due to my own scheduling. We should get back to it within the next few months.

Tips for Assembling Your RPG Group

From these experiences, I’ve gathered some insights that might help others facing similar challenges:

  1. Be Clear About Commitments: When forming a group, clarity about the level of commitment required is crucial. Make sure potential players are aware of the schedule and the expectations around attendance and preparation.
  2. Flexibility Is Key: Be willing to adapt the game’s frequency or even the time of sessions to better fit the group’s needs. Sometimes, shorter, more frequent sessions work better; other times, less frequent but longer sessions are the answer.
  3. Use Technology: Take advantage of online platforms and tools that help manage schedules and facilitate remote gameplay. This can broaden your pool of potential players and ease some logistical challenges.
  4. Consider Different Formats: If long-term campaigns are hard to schedule, consider running one-shots or mini-campaigns that require less commitment. These can be just as satisfying and a lot easier to manage.
  5. Communicate Openly: Maintain open lines of communication with your group. Regularly check in to see if the schedule still works for everyone and be open to feedback on the game’s direction and pacing.

The challenge of assembling and maintaining an RPG group is as much a part of the game as the adventures you embark on together. Whether it’s for a high-profile Actual Play show or a casual game among friends, the key lies in communication, flexibility, and a clear understanding of everyone’s expectations and limitations. By applying these principles, you can maximize your chances of keeping your group engaged and enthusiastic, ensuring many successful and enjoyable sessions to come.

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